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Identity Crisis
by Mindy Shear

We all go through this at many points in our lives, “I am going through an identity crisis” especially while dating.

As kids we thought we wanted to be Cat Woman, Barbie, a princess…you get the point. As we grew older and date after date, after…part of us wanted to become a nun (no such thing where we come from) but at times seemed appropriate anyway since many of us go through dry spells…NEVER GIVE UP, it only takes one!

All the while never giving up, of course we choose our career paths and then we think we are Athena, Goddess of all working women. As we quickly doubt ourselves and say “wishful thinking”, we run to the astrologer to see what the stars have in store for us, Love, Marriage, Kids, Careers??? Then question why did I just pay $100.00 for that!

We constantly feel like we are going in circles spinning out of control and ask while starring in the mirror WHO AM I!?

We are all of the above, none of the above, we are a mood ring, a combination platter, one from column A, two from column B, which always leads us to the ultimate question getting ready for our next big date…WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I WEAR AND WHAT LIPSTICK MAKES ME LOOK AND FEEL SEXY!?

Since the astrologer is not a make up artist, artist, stylist, this is where I come in. I will be giving you make up tips, advice, filling you in on the latest trends and the hottest looks. I will guide you in feeling beautiful from the inside out and helping you get ready for your night on the town.

By the way, this column is not just for the ladies, guys need just as much advice if not more especially without sisters or close girl “friends” to guide them. You never know this could be the “One” and if not, at least you will look amazing and feel even better for all aspects of your life.

I am sure many of you have a myriad of questions you would like me to address, so please feel free to e-mail me and I will feature as many issues that come up in my column or reply privately.

In the meantime happy dating, happy everything and I will be sure to colour your world and make up your mind.